Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8.
Have you ever fought with too short covers or blankets? Some of you length challenged people may not understand the struggles we taller people have with differing lengths of blankets. In order to warm your shoulders, you have to turn on your side, bend your knees and sleep like a pretzel, not my fun way of sleeping. If you stretch out your feet poke out and get cold. Not a way to get a good nights sleep. Have you ever felt your love blanket was too short?
Reading this passage this morning, above all, love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins, reminded me that when our love runs short, it is like that too small blanket. Instead of enlarging our love, by reminding ourselves what Jesus did for us, we either ignore this verse or point fingers at the sin of others. This is not what loving our brothers and sisters should look like. There sees to be times I put my love blanket in a too hot dryer of my emotions and feelings and allow it to shrink exposing the sins or shortcomings of those I am supposed to love.
One area that I’ve learned that causes my love blanket to shrink, is unmet expectations. How about you? I remember a time I felt a leader should have given me a word of praise or thank you, but for whatever reason, they didn’t. My emotions tried to run wild. Mumbling and grumbling began rising up in my thoughts and it wasn’t pretty. When I stopped to take a breath and a good look at myself, I had to admit they didn’t owe me a thanks. I volunteered. It was my choice. This sounds like a very small issue, and it was. But as I struggled to get past these emotions, I began to cry out to the Lord. Please help me, I do not want this is grow into a root of bitterness. As the Holy Spirit helped me rightly view the situation, peace came. I began to pray for the leader and all the things they had on their plate, besides me and my feelings. The interesting thing was that the next day, they thanked me!
Covering a sin means forgiving. Peter is dealing with interpersonal relationships within the body of Christ. If a brother or sister wrongs us, we are supposed to forgive them as Christ forgave us, but he didn’t say it would be easy. 1 Corinthians 13:5 tells us that love keeps no record of wrongs. Ouch…are you a scorekeeper? We need to put away all scorecards, as we would want others to put away their scorecards for us!
Another area of covering sin has to do with gossip. If we forgive, we don’t share. It is covered. Oh, that can be so hard to do. Our flesh loves to gossip, doesn’t it? If someone sins against us, we are supposed to go to that person, alone. When I have people coming to me about their frustrations with another person, and I ask, “have you told them”? Often, they hang their heads and say “no”. How can they change something they don’t know hurts you? It is not fair to the other person. He who goes about as a gossip reveals secrets; Therefore do not associate with a gossip [who talks freely or flatters]. Proverbs 20:19. AMP. Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouth, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. Ephesians 4:29. ESV. Gossiping definitely shrinks our love blanket.
Covering love acknowledges the hurt the sin caused. It then forgives, sets boundaries if necessary, and moves on. It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. All of these thoughts have to do with our heart, don’t they? My friends, I feel like I need to read 1 Corinthians 13, slowly once a week to remind myself what godly love looks like. It definitely does not come natural to our spiritual man, does it?
Father, please help us grow even more in understanding how we can love each other like you want us to. Teach us to place a guard over our heart first, then our mouth so we do not shrink our love blankets through unforgiveness and gossip. Teach us how not to rejoice in wrongdoing. In Jesus’ Name, amen.
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