Faith and God Ordered Steps

August 15, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

Ponder the path of your feet, then all your ways will be sure. Do not swerve to the right or to the left, turn your foot away from evil. Proverbs 4:26,27. ESV.

To prepare for moving my office from its old spot to the new room, I went through a lot of papers. Many memories surfaced as I found old teachings and writings by both Darryl and myself, old birthday cards with encouragement and lots of paperwork. In the midst, I found this prophetic word Darryl shared with the then Lighthouse Christian Center (now Life Church) in 2007. I felt the thoughts shared by the Holy Spirit are still relevant today. The words are italicized.

Ponder the path of your feet. The decisions you make today will determine the place you find yourself tomorrow. Too many times, my people do not consider the results of their actions. They live for today as though no tomorrow will come. They are too short-sighted. Learn to weigh out carefully in prayer the things that you do and do not do. Acknowledge me in all your ways and I will direct your paths. My wisdom is perfect. I see the end from the beginning. Often, you only see the things that are right in front of you, and then you make choices based on your likes and dislikes, your goals, your opinions. But I see all things. I know all things, and I want to direct you as I see and know. The wisdom that I give will lead to the ways of life. The ways that man figures out for himself have no such guarantee.

Stop and quiet yourself before me. Practice listening for my wisdom. Learn to be directed by my leading. Don’t be a reactionary to your circumstance, but learn to take action based on my directions. Life is complicated for those who have not found my wisdom. It makes no sense, and it is confusing to those who do not know my counsel.

But it is not to be so for my people. You are to know my wisdom, my counsel. I will lead you in the ways of peace as you follow my instructions. So wait up! Stop running around in circles as though there were no help from your God.

The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord. Are your steps ordered by the Lord? Or do you have any idea of what steps the Lord has for you to take? Many of my people are wandering uncertain of where they are going, not aware of where they are in reference to where I desire them to be. They have lost their way by making choices based on their own ways rather than my ways. It is time to stop this. I am calling my people to come and get back on track. I want to realign their hearts with my heart. I want to renew them in the simplicity of following their shepherd, instead of following their nose. Too many of my people are stuck in the thickets of this world’s illusions, this world’s perspectives, this world’s likes and dislikes. I want to rescue them. I want to give them again a sense of destiny, and an understanding of how to fulfill it. My people are not to pattern themselves after the ways of this world. What is it getting them? It will not get you any better. But my ways are perfect, and as you learn to delight in my instructions, they will cause you to inherit the kind of life this world can never give you.

Be careful. Walk softly before me. Don’t be hasty in your own spirit. Learn to wait before me. Let me direct your life into good things. Do this, and I will change your life from one that is coming at you with press and stress, to a life that is going into the good future that I have in reserve for you in strength and peace.

What a wonderful reminder about how much our God cares about the path we are on. Psalm 16:11 declares I will show you the path of life. Isn’t it amazing how much He understands us and wants to intervene to help us walk in His peace? Please take the time to ponder your path, but also this word. I think it has nuggets for all of us. Do not let the enemy cause you doubt your ability to hear His direction. He loves to direct the paths of His children. Wait patiently before Him, fill your mind with His Word and worship. He will show you what direction He has for you to go. Release your faith, thank Him for the direction. If you are still struggling, talk to your pastor or leader. They can help you, especially if you are new to listening and following.

Father, I thank you for Your Words of life. The wisdom in this word is still applicable to us today, seventeen years later. As we wait upon You, I thank you for refreshing, renewing and re-directing our steps even more aligned with Your Will and Your Way. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Straight Paths

August 8, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Proverbs 3:6 ESV.

Sometimes, even with the best intentions, our paths are not straight. Twenty or more years ago, my husband lay new flooring in our son’s bedroom. It looked amazing when he finished, and we all rejoiced. However, unknown to me and I assume him, there was a problem. Unbeknownst to either of us, two major flaws would create a very big headache down the road for me. The room had a door that led to the outside, but there was no eave covering that door. Over the years, the rain caused the door to deteriorate, and the house began to settle. I didn’t realize it at the time, but dampness began to erode the subfloor through the door casing. Not only that, but moisture was continually wicking up from the concrete to the subfloor as well. Long after Darryl passed away, this room became my private nightmare.

At first, I lived in denial. I kept the door shut, and with life happening, I tried to forget the problem. The room felt damp, so I borrowed a dehumidifier, and it worked for a while. Then I found earthworms crawling around inside the room! Denial was definitely not working. My friend Bill came to visit to fix issues in my bathroom. Tiles were loose in the bathtub area and we discovered mildew and rot 1/2 up the wall! I was so blessed as those areas were fixed and celebrated as this load was lifted. In Bill’s last days of visiting, he replaced the outside door, but unfortunately didn’t have time to put the trim back, so I thought we are good, I don’t have to worry about the room now. But inwardly, I knew it probably wasn’t really fixed, so I asked many handyman/contractors if they would come and check it out. But none of them had the time or inclination to do what I described as a minor job. Our friend David Freeman also fixed one moldy area. We celebrated, thinking things were finally fixed. But alas, it wasn’t enough.

Years went by and I knew we still had a problem. I kept praying, asking the Lord for help. I knew this room needed help before it affected the rest of the house. This past December, I asked a young contractor from our church if he would come and check it out. To my joy, he accepted the challenge! So much demolition took place to fix the problem that began years before. Apparently there was not enough or the right vapor barrier installed when Darryl put in the subfloor. Over the years, the wood absorbed moisture from the concrete. It took a while for the dampness to work its damage. It reminds me of the subtleness of sin…causing death in increments!

I had to move from denial to acknowledgement. It was hard. I think it is the same with our personal weaknesses. We try to cover up the problem. (I used a lot of damp rid, tea tree oil and baking soda!) But these only delayed the right solution. I finally told Ryan, my contractor, “we have to do whatever it takes to remedy the problem.” It was devastating to watch the deconstruction. I realized part of my delay was having to admit that Darryl might have made a mistake when he put the floor in. He was long gone, so I couldn’t ask him. I couldn’t remember what or how it was done. All I knew was we were in a mess. I had to forgive him for leaving me this mess! Ryan used his knowledge and experience to make sure we did not have a repeat of the situation.

He took out the door and replaced it with a slider. He tore out the outside brick siding after he discovered there was no vapor barrier between it and the wall to prevent continued dampness wicking in. We polished and sealed the now exposed concrete so no more water damage can occur. It took him several months and ate into some of his other job commitments because there was so much more work that we expected we had to do. He told me upfront he didn’t tape, mud, or d0 finish work. I appreciate every bit of his expertise, time and energy he spent on this project. I am grateful for God’s provision to cover the labor and expenses.

I had to figure out the next step. The damage was corrected, but the room was still not usable. More prayer and crying out for His help. A new fellow, Kenny, started attending my daughter’s life group. He was a handyman/contractor needing work. He was God’s provision, along with Becca’s dad and sister, who painted the interior. My grand girls painted the new exterior and last Saturday, we re-located my office. It is so bright and amazing. You would never know its previous state.

Friends, is there any area in your life where denial is trying to cover up areas of damage? Emotional? Spiritual? Or even physical? We often follow Adam and Eve’s cover up plan, don’t we? Maybe it’s shame or fear that keeps us from acknowledging the true situation. Part of my fear had to do with I didn’t know what to do. Ignorance and fear of the unknown costs or hiring the wrong person who would take advantage of that ignorance helped me delay dealing with the situation. I am so grateful for God’s prodding to deal with the mess. It took courage and ownership to look at how bad it really was to keep seeking solutions. The emotional cost of living with the fear of the unknown was worse than the truth of the situation. I am free from that fear and it is wonderful.

As I leaned into Him, He led me to the straight path of correction. He does that with our soul as well. Acknowledging Him in this situation was the best thing I could ever do. Listening to the Holy Spirit prompts, no matter in what area, always pays off. The sooner we respond, the better and easier it will be. Learning to listen in the physical can help train our understanding of spiritual and emotional ways as well.

Father, thank you for helping us walk on your straight paths. I am so grateful you knew how to help bring solutions to this overwhelming (to me) situation. I ask you to help us learn how to acknowledge you in every path, not just the overwhelming ones. Your ways are always best. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Contentment

August 1, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. Philippians 4:11. NLT.

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Pastor Josh Hubbard preached from this verse this past Sunday and it stirred my heart. To me it is one of those “re-setting” verses in the Bible that remind me of not only whose I am, but also life’s processes. Paul makes it clear that contentment is a learned attribute and is attainable.

Most definitions of biblical contentment include the state of being satisfied, at peace, and emotionally fulfilled with what one has or the circumstance one finds themselves in.. I don’t know about you, but I definitely move in and out of the state of contentment. Tuesday, we celebrated Eva Bunica’s 83 birthday. She is my daughter in law’s aunt, and I have known her for fourteen years. She has had many struggles in her life. She grew up in Romania under Communist rule. It was very difficult to be a believer during that era. But it was the religious persecution that God used to bring her and ultimately her brother’s family to the United States. Over the years, as we have talked, it was clear that it took the Holy Spirit time to heal and restore her from fear and anxiety they lived under. Their bodies were free, but their souls needed His restoration. I think it would be right to say, it took awhile for them to be content in a new country as well.

This has not been an easy year for her. Many health issues and a surprise needed pacemaker are only a part of her challenges. But there is a new peace and I would have to add contentment to her. We spent some time quietly talking, and she actually quoted this verse. She said, “I’ve learned to be content” about everything in my life. He is with me, so why not? As we talked she shared how she spent time with the Lord and during that time, her attitude was changed. Her outward situation didn’t. But she did. I think that is what Paul was trying to convey with Philippians 4: 12-13. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.

Contentment has to do with our perspective and attitude, not our circumstances. It involves capturing those thoughts that would run to fear, anxiety, doubt or unbelief. It is choosing faith over those things, with knowing God is in charge, not you. So no matter what you face, He is there with His purpose and plan.

I Timothy 6:6 For godliness with contentment is great gain (or wealth).

Hebrews 13:5 Don’t love money; be satisfied with what you have. For God has said, “I will never fail you. I will never abandon you. So we can say with confidence. The Lord is my helper, so I will have no fear. What can mere people do to me.

Learning to be content is something our teacher, the Holy Spirit longs to teach each of us. Young moms struggling with toddler tantrums and nap refusals may find it difficult to feel contentment. I remember those days, but I found contentment in knowing that I was in my calling. It was my assignment to help those little humans to learn about life. My contentment was in His purpose. I also regularly cried out for His wisdom on how to do it!

Abiding in Christ’s contentment does not mean we can not or should not have an ambition for change. Seeking Him for His changes often comes from a place of peace where we can hear His voice. It is harder to find His leadings when we are in the midst of chaos and turmoil in our own souls. When we are contented we stop complaining and start to enjoy our life, even while believing for that promotion or relationship to show up!

Take time to reflect on your current circumstance. Are you content? Or are you striving? Are you looking for something to change so you can “be happy”? You haven’t arrived at the state of contentment yet. It is amazing how our faith is tied in with contentment. When we are “content” faith is much more easily released than when we are discontent. Grumbling, complaining and irritation block joy and faith. Gratitude, thankfulness and peace flow from a contented person. So what is your contentment level? My friends, do not be afraid to check it. If you realize you need to grow in this area, simply ask Him. Sitting in His Presence worshipping is a great way to start. Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Hebrews 12:1-3. NLT It comes down again, to keeping our focus on Him, not ourselves or our circumstances. Discontentment comes from giving in to the lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh or the pride of life. Listening to lies about how we aren’t good enough, or why do they have this or that does not lead to contentment. It takes practice to keep our eyes focused on Him. If they drift away, repent and start again. It gets easier and easier with practice. We do not have to live lives with nagging thoughts plaguing us. That never was His plan.

Father, I ask you to teach us how to live in the state of contentment. Reveal areas of our soul where we struggle to find peace in Your will and Your way. Help us to trust Your plan in every area of our lives, In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Rest

July 25, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

Only in returning to me and resting in me will you be saved. In quietness and confidence is your strength, but you would have none of it. Isaiah 30:15 NLT.

As I have been reading through the book of Isaiah, I have been struck by how far God’s people have strayed from His purpose and plan. But even though He gave them rich and wonderful promises, they refused to listen. God has told his people, there is a place of rest; let the weary rest here. There is a quiet rest, but they would not listen. Isaiah 28:12. NLT.

I actually thought, “how can you be so dumb!”. You traded your powerful, amazing God for the idols of your neighboring countries. You thought idols of wood and stone, along with pagan worship practices, would bring your freedom and life, but you were so wrong. But then I thought about myself. Do I access God’s rest and promises in the fullness that I can or should?
Life has been busy and, if I can admit it, a bit stressful lately. I need to trust His promises even more than ever. A couple of weeks ago, I woke up with vertigo. I felt like a drunken sailor. My furniture placement proved helpful in navigating to the bathroom because I needed its stability! My dear daughter -in- law Becca came over and did some kind of blood pressure test to make sure it wasn’t anything serious, but I had to rest.

I realize I am not very good at resting. Someone asked me today about my Sabbath. Hmmm, I try to plan it usually on Fridays, but it hasn’t been happening lately. So when the dizziness re-appeared today, I was forced to retreat to my bed and rest. Both the end of the scripture in Isaiah 28:12 and 30:15 tell the Israelites that there is an opportunity to rest, but they “would not.” I think we are not much different than they were–we want the “rest” but we want it on our terms.

Psalm 23:1-2 The Lord is my shepherd, I have all that I need. He lets me rest in green meadows; he leads me beside peaceful streams. Is He my shepherd? Am I allowing Him to lead and guide me to those peaceful, restful places? I have to admit, not like I used to. Dehydration can cause all kinds of symptoms. My water intake has been noticeably reduced, which can lead to vertigo. So, I am back to focusing on water, rest and food! I don’t want to be like the Israelites “who would not” take advantage of God’s wisdom.

This morning I sat and read Isaiah 40-44. Such amazing words of life are in these passages. These are sections that promise a wonderful Savior is coming, and we know who He is. We get to walk and rest with Him, if we don’t get too busy doing our own thing. Have you never heard? Have you never understood? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of all the earth. He never grows weak or weary. No one can measure the depths of his understanding. He gives power to the weak and strength to the powerless. Isaiah 40:28. Sometimes, we as believers act like we have never heard of Him!

Yes, this is our God. The one we get to walk with. Are you feeling weak or frail? Not just your body, but in your soul? Take the time to wait on and with Him. But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary, They will walk and not faint. Isaiah 40: 33. This is our promise my friends, but it will only happen if we allow Him to lead and guide us to those resting places. He has them prepared for you, but you must take the time to enter into His rest. Fretting, worrying, fear, anxiety are not found in His presence. Remember, this next verse is not just something to quote, but something to actually learn to walk out. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4: 6-7. During this busy, stressful time, not only did I neglect hydration, I did not take the time to bring all my requests to the Lord. I thought I was, but as I wrote out that scripture, I recognized I was just carrying them in my head and not casting them off to Him. Maybe I am not the only one?

Father, I thank you for teaching us how to enter into Your rest. I thank you for forgiving us for not letting You be our Shepherd and trying to run our own lives. Help us re-set today and start anew. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Refuge

July 18, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in trouble. Psalm 46:1. NLT

This past February I got the joy of being invited to go to Disneyland with my daughter, Elizabeth and her family. Through God’s amazing and various provisions, the seven of us planned and anticipated this adventure. It just so happened that our planned Disney days took place during some of the heaviest rains Anaheim had experienced in years! The heavens opened and the streets literally became rivers. There are no “refunds for rainy days” at Disneyland. It is go or lose your money! The storms of life are like that too–there is no getting away from them.

The other day, I felt overwhelmed as I prayed for some of my friends and family situations. They face challenges for their families that break my heart. It caused a sort of “soul storm” in my emotions. I wanted to run away from those challenges, but in reality, I needed a refuge from them. A place of safety where I could sort through my emotions, rather than hiding from them. Have you ever experienced that? You want to run away. That is when we have a choice. We can either run to God, or run to our hobbies, food, alcohol, or other distractions. As I made the choice (this time!) to run to Him, not only did peace come, but so did faith. As I released this faith in prayer, I knew God not only had their problems but also them. I was able to intercede for them with greater faith.

The Hebrew word for “refuge” in this verse is machseh. It means a shelter, refuge, protection, or fortress. It also includes the idea of a hope and a place of trust; and the obvious: a shelter from storms. When we run to Him as a refuge, hope must come. Are you struggling with any storms or troubles in your life? Do you feel battered and bruised? God is waiting for you to go to Him. It is always available, but if we don’t access it, we won’t have it.

Sometimes, as I seek His refuge, I just sit in His Presence. I might turn on worship music or sit in silence, slowly focusing on Him, not the storms. Gradually, as I sit there I feel strengthened because He is not just a God who provides refuge, He is a God who wants to strengthen us to not just hide from our troubles, but learn how to face them victoriously.

After the sitting and “catching my breath” phase, I then begin to share with Him about the situation. It is not to give Him the information–for, of course He already knows it, but often as I share clarity comes. I begin to be able to sort out the difference between my feelings and the facts of the situation. Many times this is when the thread of solution begins to open up. Psalm 62:8 encourages us: Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us. We find David, in Psalm 142:2-3 declaring I pour out my complaints before him and tell him all my troubles. When I am overwhelmed, you alone know the way I should turn. He found it solace in sharing with the Lord all his thoughts–including his complaints. If you have never verbalized your thoughts and feelings out loud, try it. It may sound silly to say, but it makes a difference, especially hearing your own words and thoughts. Praying audibly is a valuable tool for your tool belt.

This is a reminder that we all can have access to His refuge. Don’t try to live through your storms without a shelter. Go to Him. Ask Him for His strength, insight and wisdom in dealing with every trouble you are facing. Jesus left us some encouraging and comforting but tough words to hear in John 16: Jesus asked, “Do you finally believe? But the time is coming–indeed it’s here now–when you will be scattered, each one going his own way, leaving me along. Yet I am not alone because the Father is with me. I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world. John 16:31-33. NLT. I think the sooner we learn how to abide in the shelter of the Almighty (Psalm 91:1) and not be surprised that we have many trials and sorrows, the sooner we receive His strength and help with those trials and sorrows.

When we abide in His refuge, He often reminds us to put on His armor, to cast our cares or to remember we can do all things through Christ who does in fact strengthen us! I have never lived in “tornado alley”, but I imagine those folks prepare, and prepare well, because they know storms are inevitable. We can learn to prepare for the troubles we face as well. Remember, you are not alone. He is with you. Are you prepared?

Father, thank you for your provision from our storms and trials. We can take heart that we can overcome the with Your strength and help. Teach us to turn quickly to you in our times of distress, instead of living outside the protection You have provided for us, In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Fresh Trust

July 11, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

Unless your faith is firm, I cannot make you stand firm. Isaiah 7:9b. NLT.

I read this portion of scripture a few days ago, and it struck me quite hard. The NKJV says “If you will not believe, surely you shall not be established…”. As I have been walking through life’s challenges this past week, I realized, God is working in our hearts to help is stand strong in Him, His Word and His Ways. It is time my friends, to refresh your trust in Who HE Is!

It seems life has been more challenging for more people lately. It is like one of those video games where you start out on a easy level where things are at a slower pace and you can keep up. Then as you move up more levels, the enemy is firing more often with even stronger fire balls at you. For me, I get overwhelmed and quit. Which is an easy thing to do, because it is a game. Life not so much. Many of my friends are facing extremely difficult decisions about how to do life, financially, emotionally and spiritually. They are struggling, but standing. I have been praying for them, a lot! My trust in Him and His ways is either firm, or it isn’t. The good news is that God understands our shaky ways, and He has a plan.

Strengthen the weak hands, and make firm the feeble knees. Say to those who are fearful-hearted, be strong do not fear! Behold your God will come with vengeance, with the recompense of God; He will come and save you. Isaiah 35: 3-4. NKJV Do your knees need to be strengthened? Are they feeling a bit feeble? I want to encourage you to cling to the Lord. Whatever you are facing, He will help you. He will show up and in His time the battle will be over. At times, during my own struggles, I think what would Jesus do if He were here? He would stand and win. Then I remember, He is here, fighting for me and with me. I can rest in Him, even during the fight!

Maybe your battle is with yourself. It happens. My advice? Just surrender to Him and His will, tell Him your struggles and lean in to Him. Surround yourself with believers who can help strengthen those weaker areas. But it really is up to each of us, to either choose to trust Him and His ways or not. To allow the fruit of the Spirit to be cultivated in our hearts versus allowing the works of the flesh to reign. Ask for prayer and counseling. Listen to it and apply it. Take courage from the testimony of others. I have never found Him lacking, myself yes, Him, never. I encourage myself with Paul’s many trials that are listed in 2 Corinthians. I haven’t been beaten, stoned, shipwrecked or thrown into prison for my faith. If he can do it and stay strong in his faith, I can go through my trials and tests, and so can you.

Maybe it is time for you to refresh your trust in the Who you are trusting. Don’t wait another day. Make the time to spend quality time in His Presence. You will find your hands strengthened, your knees firmed up and with a new resolve that life is doable. It is easy to forget, in the middle of so many battles, that we have a Savior, but we do! Answers to your prayers may take time, but fellowship with Him can happen at any time. And during the fellowship of our sufferings we can come to know Him in a deeper manner. Enduring hard things is part of what life is about. It is so much easier doing those hard things together with Him, than alone.

We must take time to consider, “do we want to grow stronger in our faith and trust, or do we just want to complain about our struggles?” God’s help is always available, but there are times when people resist His help. That is part of the reason Isaiah wrote “unless your faith is firm, I cannot make you firm”, again, it is our choice. My friends, choose Him, it’s always worth it.

Father, I thank you for renewing and refreshing our trust in Who you are. I thank you that as we read Your Word, we can discover You and Your Ways and they are good. I ask you to strengthen those who are feeling weak and feeble today. Send Your Word of encouragement to them, In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Freedom

July 5, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

I will walk in freedom, for I have devoted myself to your commandments. Psalm 119:45. NLT.

As we celebrate our nation’s freedom this week, it is always good to remember what it cost our founding fathers to form our nation. So many of the signers of the Declaration of Independence suffered for their actions. The British captured five of the signers, and tortured them before they died. Twelve had their homes ransacked and burned. Two lost their sons in the revolutionary army, another had two sons captured. Nine of the 56 fought and died from wounds or hardships of the revolutionary war. (www.michaelwsmith.com) It was personally costly for these brave men, and we are still reaping the benefits of their sacrifice today.

But, unfortunately, most of us don’t even think about that cost. Complaints, criticism and frustrations abound about how things are not right, but rarely do we hear people talking about the freedoms we have. Each of these freedoms came with a high price tag. The freedom of speech, the freedom of assembly and worship, the freedom of the press are all freedoms our founding fathers fought for. Because most of us have not lived in places where these freedoms are not experienced, we don’t comprehend how good we do have it. I think it is often the same with the freedom that was purchased by Christ. We are often forgetful about the actual price it cost Him for our freedom. Then we settle for living less than He intends.

There are so many ways we can get entangled. We move from grace to living under the law. We forget about cultivating the fruit of the Spirit, and settle for the works of the flesh. One way we can lose our freedom is living with unforgiveness. Our Life Group has been watching a video series by Bruce and Toni Hebel, called “Forgiving Forward”. This teaching really brings it home that God’s Word is quite adamant that we need to walk in forgiveness, no matter what. It is not an option. As I have waited on the Lord, it’s been surprising the things the Holy Spirit brings up that I need to take the time to forgive–things in the past that I thought were long buried and done with. But as I partner with Him, I find my heart freer and at an even greater peace. This is a reminder to keep your heart clear as the Holy Spirit leads. Do not fall for the lie or deception that it doesn’t make a difference, because it does. Read Matthew 18: 21-35. Let God’s Word touch your heart.

Jesus poured His life out for us. He endured so much to purchase our freedom, and for that I am so grateful. We can walk with Him with a free heart, and that is priceless. The freedom forgiveness brings to you and your relationships is priceless. Don’t justify it, just do it. Ask Him for His help, He is really good at helping people forgive!

Father, I am so grateful we have your forgiveness. Thank you we can walk in that freedom and help pass that on to others. Our ability to forgive comes from the fact we are already forgiven. Teach us how to forgive from our heart like you have asked us to. We trust you to heal our hurts, and release us into Your freedom, In Jesus Name, amen.

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Faith and the Power of “Yes”

June 27, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

“Let’s go at once to take the land,” he said. “We can certainly conquer it.” Numbers 13:30. NLT.

The quote above is brave courageous Caleb talking, encouraging his fellow Israelites to enter the land God promised them. He and the other eleven spies spent forty days exploring the territory. They found amazing reasons to want to enter this land. They declared it was a land flowing with milk and honey. Fruit so large it took two men to carry a single cluster of grapes! There were pomegranates and figs! Can you imagine how wonderful they must have tasted after manna (and a bit of quail?) They had been traveling about two years at this point. I imagine the moms with small children were looking forward to a settling place, instead of traveling.

Unfortunately, the majority ruled in the decision. Ten nos to two yeses left them with a forty-year journey. Sometimes, when others don’t say “yes” to God’s plans, it causes us to bear the effects of their nos. I wonder what encouraging faith stories we would have had if they had said, “we can do it!” When I read this story, I get frustrated with the ten, but I don’t know which side I would have been on if I had actually been there!

By God’s grace, I have experienced the power of saying “yes” to God’s leading. Darryl and I left Idaho with two small children, headed for Providence, Rhode Island. We had forty dollars and the Word of the Lord to depend on. It was an amazing, challenging but faith building experience. Our VW van lost a tire going down a 6% grade outside Billings, Montana. The Holy Spirit led us to contact a pastor who helped us get a new tire and $50.00. We drove on to Youngstown, Ohio, where I met his grandparents. His grandparents handed us two cards from other family members. They turned out to be new baby congratulation cards for our daughter Elizabeth, who was six months old! These cards contained the cash we needed to continue the rest of our journey where we arrived with $50! As Darryl and I prayed together, in unity, we found out just what an amazing supplier our God really is. As I think about the faith and peace we left Idaho with, I marvel at God’s goodness. I think Caleb and Joshua had that same faith when they said, we can do it.

When we said “yes” to this trip, we did not know that it would open doors that are still open for relationships and ministry. We could have stayed “fear locked” in Idaho, but we didn’t. Is there anywhere in your life that fear has locked you out of God’s future? If so, it’s not too late. Just say “yes” and move on through whatever door He opens.

If I am honest, I also have stories where I tried to justify my “nos”. Just the other day, I felt to stop by my friend’s store and encourage her, but I didn’t feel I was “dressed” right, so I drove on. I felt the Holy Spirit tell me later, “then don’t leave the house dressed in a way that would hinder you from saying yes to my leading.” Oops. This left me feeling “small” and wondering what encouragement my friend could have used that day. I made it about me, not Him or her. When I saw her the next time, I apologized for ignoring the Lord’s prompting. It was a learning lesson for us both.

Friends, have you been praying for open doors for ministry to your family or friends? Have you asked Him to use you to bring light, hope, and love to this world? Then say “yes” to His promptings. Make a call, send a card, give a financial gift–do whatever He says, the power of saying Yes to His will may surprise you. Are you bored with your walk with Him? It may be because you delayed in saying “yes” to Him in some area of your life. Delaying to say “yes”, is in reality a “no”. If the Israelites had just gone into the land, ignoring their fears and trusting the Lord they would have experienced some astounding victories, I am sure. Do not let fear stop you from saying yes, no matter what it looks or feels like. Saying yes to Him releases strength, wisdom and insight to win whatever battle you are facing. Saying no, only land locks you into fear and stagnancy. My friends, you can say yes to Him, this day. Don’t focus on the giants, but focus yourself on our powerful, mighty God. You won’t regret it.

Father, I thank you for courage today to say yes to your will and your ways. Forgive us for ignoring or delaying your assignments for our lives, no matter how big or how small. Help us grow in trusting you and I thank you for freeing your people from both big and little fears this day, In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

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Faith and “Ignoring”

June 20, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves. James 1:22. NLT

There is quite a difference between ignorance and ignoring. Ignorance is the lack of knowledge or information. Ignoring is the refusal to take notice of or acknowledge something, the failing to consider or the choice to disregard something. Before we learn something, we are in ignorance about it. Years ago, when we first moved to Oak Harbor, I was pulled over by a police officer for traveling 30 miles an hour in a 25 mile zone. He said, “You didn’t even slow down when you saw me.” “I said, because I thought the speed limit on this road was 30 miles an hour!”. He was gracious and gave me a warning. I am no longer “ignorant” of the speed limit on that road. If I drive 30 miles an hour, I am ignoring the rules of the road, and breaking the law.

I think we as God’s people are often guilty of ignoring His commandments, than being ignorant of them. I’ve been reading about King Solomon, and we find he did some major ignoring of his own, which cost Israel dearly after he died. He ignored God’s ruling about marrying foreign wives. Even though he asked for wisdom and understanding to lead the nation, he faltered in this one area. Those women he married caused him to build actual shrines to their gods. On the Mount of Olives, east of Jerusalem, he even built a pagan shrine for Chemosh, the detestable god of Moab, and another for Molech, the detestable god of the Ammonites. Solomon built such shrines for all his foreign wives to use for burning incense and sacrificing to their gods. 1 Kings 11: 7-8. This is a man who built the Temple to the Lord! I don’t know how he justified these builds, (maybe it was for peace in his household), but the consequences for Israel were severe.

The Lord was very angry with Solomon, for his heart had turned away from the Lord, the God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice. He had warned Solomon specifically about worshiping other gods, but Solomon did not listen to the Lord’s commands. 1 Kings 11: 9-10. The passage goes on with God telling Solomon that he is going to tear the kingdom away from him, and give it to one of his servants, which after his death happens.

As much as I want to judge Solomon for his actions. I can’t. I realize, at times, we all pick and choose which scriptures we apply and which ones we think we can conveniently ignore. Solomon lost sight of his relationship with the Lord, and so it became easy for him to pick and choose his obedience. Isn’t that the same with us? When we go through the motions of our “religion” it becomes easier to justify the lack of Bible reading, church attendance, tithing, loving others or forgiving. 2 Timothy 2:15 states, do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. This scripture helps motivate me to stay in the Word, and do my best to apply it.

Revelation 2 and 3 include specific encouragement and specific corrections to seven different churches. Most of these “churches” which are actually the people in them, were criticized for ignoring some of the basic truths they were taught. Reading through them always encourages me to stand taller in the things I’ve already learned, which is good. But the one that touches my heart the most is the church at Ephesus. They did so many good things, but they lost their first love. Solomon lost his first love, which is why he actually lost the kingdom. My friends, let us persevere in listening to the Holy Spirit and asking Him if we have justified “ignoring” His Word in any area of our lives. The price is higher than we can imagine. Our next generation is looking to us. If we compromise and justify ignoring parts of scripture, they will too. I am grateful for God’s grace and mercy. He desires to help us listen and obey. James 1:22-25. But don’t just listen to God’s word. Y0u must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves. For if you listen to the word and don’t obey, it is like glancing at your face in the mirror. You see yourself, walk away, and forget what you look like. But if you look carefully into the perfect law that sets you free, and if you do what it says and don’t forget what you heard, then God will bless you for doing it.

Father, I thank you for loving us enough to help us walk in Your ways. Help us be faithful to Your Word and not be forgetful doers of it. Help us not get fooled into thinking we can ignore your Words and not have any consequences. Forgive us, In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Being a Disciple

June 13, 2024 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

Jesus came and told his disciples, “I have been given all authority in heaven and earth. Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:18-20. NLT.

When was the last time you acknowledged, identified, accepted the fact that you are a disciple of Jesus Christ? Living as a disciple should cause major shifts in our thinking. We are truly not our own, but His. A disciple must, inherently , be a learner. They set themselves to learn from their leader.

We find the heart of Jesus in this passage. He wants his followers to go and make disciples. I read something someone wrote called the 3 F’s of discipleship. These three F’s are: follow, fellowship and fish. Being a disciple means we follow Jesus. We learn to do things as He desires. It is not our will, but His will that is foremost in our mind. What would Jesus do? How would He do it? If we are not sure, we can search His Word, or ask trusted leaders. You may not always get it right, but a heart to do right is a substantial shift to begin with. Which is why He includes baptizing them in the name of the Father, and the Son and the Holy Spirit. We must remember we cannot become disciples without the power of the Holy Spirit, and we do not have to. When we relegate our “discipleship” to mental assent and intellectual pursuit, we fall short of the power that changes us on the inside, because, foremost, discipleship deals with heart change.

To be a disciple, we must be teachable. We must allow the Holy Spirit to show us wrong thinking and wrong acting. Letting go of “what seems right to a man,”, and choosing to trust God’s wisdom takes humility. Included in that humility means finding the truth and letting that become your truth. When was the last time you learned something new? Or let go of old understandings? I’ve known all along the Bible teaches about forgiveness, but studying Matthew 18:35 in our Life Group has made it very clear we must forgive. It is not an option. I understood it on one level, but it has become much clearer lately. Learning these types of truths, which really do set us free, requires the renewing of our minds, which only our God can help us do.

Jesus clarifies: teaching them to obey all the commands. Wow, as a disciple, we must allow the Holy Spirit to give us commands. This definitely goes against our western independence! There are definite commands that, as a disciple, we must shift our thinking to accept. A mature disciple accepts these commandments because he trusts His master. He is willing to “endure the fellowship of his sufferings”. A disciple is not a fair- weathered friend, but perseveres to the end. Paul is such an amazing example for us. Read through Paul’s list of things he went through in Acts and 2 Corinthians 6. There is a cost of fellowship, but we must remember what we are purchasing.

As we develop our fellowship with Christ, we have the joy of seeing others set free as they taste of His goodness through our lives. Having a loving, caring relationship with Jesus is amazing, and worth the cost no matter what. He is always with us. We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us , because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love. Romans 5:3-5. NLT. Being a disciple really does mean laying down our lives and taking up our cross daily. Not just when it seems more convenient or easy, but at His wisdom. We often run into trouble when we hear our assignment, but then try to do it alone. When my children were little and I would assign them a task, they would want to run off and do it without taking the time for instruction. They probably felt it took too long, and “they knew how to do it”. I have some grandchildren who want to figure everything out themselves, but, once again, that is not the stance of a disciple. We are learners, listeners and submitters!

The last thing Jesus left them with was: And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age. Matthew 28:20. Dear friends, remember, we are not walking this journey of discipleship alone. Our God is with us. He is with us with all His provision, His love and His authority. We must learn how to use the authority given to us, the spiritual armor given, the fruit of the Spirit to become a fully mature disciple of Jesus Christ. He is well able to teach us. He has provided apostles, prophets, evangelists and pastors and teachers to equip the body of Christ. (Ephesians 4:11). Learning to learn from His leaders is another mark of maturity, then growing up into your specific calling. As disciples we move from milk to meat. We learn to love our brethren, and so much more. If you have forgotten that as a believer, you are called to be a disciple, then shift your thinking and get on with it! The body of Christ needs you.

Father, thank you for the privilege of being your disciple. Help us bring honor and glory to your name. I thank you for showing us how to persevere and follow you, no matter where You lead. Teach how to follow, fellowship and then become fishermen ourselves, in Jesus’ Name, amen.