Faith and Prayer

July 31, 2025 Martha Rodman1 Comment

18 Pray in the Spirit at all times and on every occasion. Stay alert and be persistent in your prayers for all believers everywhere. Ephesians 6:18 NLT

We finished the book of Ephesians with our small group. After exploring our warfare gear (i.e. the armor of God), he finishes with exhorting us to pray. The Bible Expository Commentary opens this section with the following statement. Prayer is the energy that enables the Christian soldier to wear the armor and wield the sword. (By Warren Wiersbe.) How and or why? I think this statement comes from Wiersbe’s own prayer life. Oh my friends, do not let the enemy rob you of the blessing of prayer.

When I think about PRAYER. yes with capitals. I get intimidated. I feel like a failure and that I don’t do it correctly. One day, as I was struggling to feel like I was doing it “right”, the Lord spoke to me. “He said, how do you and Darryl communicate in your marriage? That really took me back. As I took a moment, I realized that sometimes we chat up a storm, other times much quieter. Sometimes it is my actions, facial expressions, or even notes that communicate my thoughts. Then He reminded me we were in a “relationship” and that it was O.K. for things to ebb and flow. Prayer became a much freer and more relatable time.

Along my prayer journey, I discovered Psalm 5:3. Listen to my voice in the morning, Lord. Each morning I bring my requests to you and wait expectantly. Rising in the morning, I greet the Lord, just like I used to greet my husband. It sets and settles the tone for my day. I know He is with me. It is my habit to have “coffee with Jesus” and His Word each morning. Some days I eagerly look forward to this time, other days, I confess it is a habit. The blessing of the habit is they sustain you during some dry times. Just like in my marriage when things seemed a bit dry, we would take the time to reconnect.

In Matthew 6:9, Jesus answers His disciples’ request to teach them how to pray. He begins with “Our Father.” There is a part where the marriage analogy breaks down. We must remember who we are praying too. It is the God who created the universe we are talking to. This is the God who lovingly, graciously, and sacrificially laid down His life for us. We must be respectful and honoring in our honesty. Our Father, hallowed be your name, is a way of keeping Him in His rightful place.

Just like in a marriage, if all I did was ask for things, the relationship wouldn’t develop. When we only petition God for things, our relationship is limited. God becomes a “fix it up chappy” for us and we wonder why we lose our joy. 1 Timothy 2:1-2 informs us of many different types of prayers we are to pray. First of all then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life,godly and dignified in every way.

Which type do you find yourself using the most? I have intentionally added more thanksgiving to my prayer life. Just like in my marriage, when I thanked and praised my husband more than criticized him, things went smoother. For me, thanksgiving has helped me grow in trust and faith. Releasing my faith becomes easier when I thank Him. I am grateful for what He has already done. Praise, worship and thanksgiving gets us out of our own limitations and brings God in. My flesh often just wants to “get to the point”, but thanksgiving actually gets me there sooner!

My friends, effective prayer begins with acknowledging who we are talking to. It begins with understanding we are in a relationship and that He has proven He wants to talk with us. He has proven His love already. If you struggle in an area of unbelief, take the time to be in His Word first. Build a scriptural foundation for what you are asking. Accept that sometimes God’s wisdom says “no” to our requests, just like a parent would say no. James 4:2-3 offers a humbling reminder. It shows what happens when we walk in the flesh instead of the Spirit. Yet, we still expect the fruit of the Spirit. You desire but you do not have so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures. James 4:2-3 NIV. Ouch, so true.

Ephesians 6:18 emphasizes the importance of prayer. Warren Wiersbe, a respected Bible teacher, made this statement. Prayer is the energy that enables the Christian soldier to wear the armor and wield the sword. My friends, keep on praying or as Paul says: and pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people. Ephesians 6:18. NIV.

Father, keep on teaching us how to pray. I thank you for the privilege we have been given to talk with You, the creator of the universe. You have given us the ability to partner with you, and that is amazing, in Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and the Sword of the Spirit

July 24, 2025 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

And take the sword of the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. Ephesians 6:17. ESV.

The word of God is described in this verse as the sword of the Spirit. According to Hebrews 4:12, for the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. (ESV). What a gift to us. This active and living word we can implement in our lives for ourselves and others. In His loving wisdom, He gave us His truth to use to get to know Him and ourselves better.

The word used for sword here, means a dagger. It was used for close combat. They had the shield in one hand and used the dagger in the other. Most of our warfare against our enemy is close combat, isn’t it? Satan loves to attack us with doubt, unbelief, insecurities and fears, etc. So how do we fight them? By using the truth found in God’s Word.

In the beginning [before all time] was the Word (Christ), and the Word was God, and the Word was God Himself. John 1:1 AMP. The reason the word of God is alive and powerful is because it is Christ. Study and do your best to present yourself to God approved, a workman [tested by trial] who has no reason to be ashamed, accurately handling and skillfully teaching the word of truth. 2 Timothy 2:15. AMP. The purpose of studying is to learn about Him and His ways. It is not getting more facts, but it is to help us grow in our relationship with Him. This insight has led me to appreciate my time in His Word even more. I appreciate even the parts I still don’t understand. As I read the begats, I think about how He knew and saw everyone, the same way He knows me. It amazes me, as well as inspires me.

I read somewhere that knowing the Word helps us understand who God is and how God sees us. It is true. Sometimes the truth of Hebrews 4:12 it exposes our innermost thoughts and desires, hits a little too close to home. I have learned to pay attention when God’s Word exposes the little foxes hidden in my heart. It is freeing to know He already knows my frame and wants to help me become more like Him. Often it is a reminder of how much we still need a Savior. The Message version of 1 Peter 1:17 is a great example. You call out to God for help and he helps–he’s a good Father that way. But don’t forget, he’s also a responsible Father, and won’t let you get by with sloppy living. Ouch, in a good way. When he exposes our “sloppy” living, it is for our benefit and blessing. Reading and applying these adjustments to our lives is another way we defeat the devil. We aren’t handing him a stick to hit us with.

Learning to stand on the truth of God’s Word is crucial for victory, not only for ourselves, but for others. We must learn to use God’s Word to help others, not wound them. Remember: For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12. ESV. Reading the list of these spiritual enemies reminds me just how strong the battle is against God’s people. However, it also reminds me how strong and powerful God’s Word is. We must release our faith when we use God’s Word, trusting it will bring down the forces of darkness. My friends, we are not play fighting because this is serious business. Our Commander-in-Chief wants to equip us for war. He wants to train us so we can stand against every wile of the enemy. Do not fear. He is more than able, and so are we. Take the authority you have been given in Christ, and tell him “no, not on my watch”. Stand firm in what you know. Do not let Satan push you around. Believe God’s Word. Use God’s Word. Stand on God’s Word. Do not fall for Satan’s accusations against yourself or others. Remember, Satan is a liar, and the father of lies. God’s Word is Truth, aren’t you glad?

Father, I thank you for showing us just how strong and powerful your Word is. It is able to defeat every wily scheme of our enemy. Please teach us how to use your Word more effectively. Train us in your ways, in Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and The Helmet of Salvation

July 17, 2025 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

But let us who are of the day be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love, and as a helmet the hope of salvation. 1 Thessalonians 5: 8. NKJV.

When I grew up, helmets were not a thing. Nobody wore helmets bike riding, and it was rare to see someone riding a motorcycle wearing one. I remember the first time I wore a helmet. My friend offered me a ride on his motorcycle and lent me his helmet. It felt huge, heavy and quite cumbersome. It seemed restrictive. Faster speeds, congested roadways, and statistics encouraged most state lawmakers to pass legislation requiring motorcyclists to wear helmets. It is for their own benefit. God’s Word doesn’t compel us to wear the helmet of salvation, but it is to our benefit if we do!

Roman helmets were a very critical part of their armor. That is an obvious statement, isn’t it? Craftsmen usually constructed them of brass or bronze. Later, they discovered that many were also made of iron. Each helmet, regardless of material, protected the wearer’s head. It covered the whole head, his face and even between the eyes. The New Living Translation says: Put on salvation as your helmet. What is there about “salvation” that is a head protection? Let’s break it down.

When we put on the helmet of salvation, we are declaring which side of the battle we are on. It is a declaration that we are willing to follow our Commander, no matter where He leads. This helmet shows the enemy and the world that we want to have a mind that is controlled by God and His thoughts. What did the serpent do to tempt Eve? He appealed to her thought realm. Did God really say you must not eat the fruit from any of the trees in the garden? We can see Eve beginning to think…she answered truthfully, Of course we may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, the woman replied. It’s only the fruit from the tree in the middle of the garden that we are not allowed to eat. God said, You must not eat it, or even touch it; if you do, you will die.I think God made it pretty clear: don’t eat it. You won’t die! The serpent replied to the woman. God knows that your eyes will be opened as soon as you eat it, and you will be like God, knowing both good and evil. The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Genesis 3:1-6. NLT. If God had controlled her mind, the serpent wouldn’t have beguiled her. Satan got her to swallow his lie, and she began to doubt God’s goodness. He is still using the same tactics, and unfortunately God’s people are still falling for it. She was deceived, and so we can be too.

In I Thessalonians 5:8, Paul tells us But let us who live in the light be clearheaded, protected by the armor of faith and love, and wearing as our helmet the confidence of our salvation. Reading through the Genesis passage made me stop and think, “Why do we think we can outsmart Satan?” The NKJV describes him as more cunning than any beast of the field, the NIV says he was “more crafty”; the Message has him “more clever”; but the Amplified may be the clearest: Now the serpent was more crafty (subtle, skilled in deceit) than any living creature of the field which Lord God had made. Genesis 3:1. My friends, do you really understand that without the Holy Spirit, we can’t fight him? That is humbling to admit, but he probably can outsmart us, but not when we are armored with the Armor of God.

We are humans, but we don’t wage war as humans do. We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning and to destroy false arguments. We destroy every proud obstacle that keeps people from knowing God. We capture their rebellious thoughts and teach them to obey Christ. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5. NLT. This takes the mind of Christ to be able to confront those worldly arguments. We can’t do it with our own minds. We must renew our minds as Romans 12:2 exhorts. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, and what is good and acceptable and perfect. Eve was tricked away from what was good, acceptable and perfect. Many times it is the small lies that trip us up. Is God really for you? What about the leadership of your church? Do they have your best interest at heart? Or do you even need to be part of the body of Christ? You can just love Jesus and go about your life as you see fit. These are some of the subtle lies that we can begin believing, if we do not have the helmet of salvation firmly covering our minds.

The hope of salvation causes us to stand strong and tall. It reminds us of whose we are, and where we are going. It gives us confidence in Him and His ways. We grasp the truth of Romans 6:5-7. For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God. As believers, we must set our minds on things of the Spirit, and we can only do that when settle in our minds and hearts that we are going to submit to our Commander, our Lord and Savior. Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. Colossians 3:2-3. ESV. Without the helmet are thoughts scatter to fear, doubt and unbelief.

Paul’s exhortation in Ephesians 6:11, Put on, is written in a very firm tone. The verb tense is “put it on and keep it on”. My friends, we can’t pick and choose the time we armor up. Soldiers can’t pick and choose random days to serve or not. There is a war raging, and we are all in it. The good news is we fight from victory, not for victory, no matter how you feel or what you see. Wear your helmet. Every day. All day.

Remember: You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you. Isaiah 26:3. NLT. Check your peace level, maybe you have forgotten your helmet!

Father, there are some of your children who are weary in their fight. I ask you to refresh them today with your grace and strength. Teach us the blessing of our helmet of salvation. We are so grateful for the hope your salvation gives us. Thank you for the protection we have when we use your armor purposefully and consistently. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Good Walking Shoes

July 3, 2025 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace. Ephesians 6:14-15. NKJV

A couple of years ago, I bought two pair of Skecher slip in shoes. The store I purchased them in had a sale going, buy one and get the second one half off. It was a great deal. I decided to get two different styles. One pair was pink with a lace up front, the other blue with just the slip in elastic. I love them. I love the slip in, no hands or bending technology for my aging body. However, after about a year, I realized they are not the same. When I wear the pink pair, my feet feel great, even after moving around most of the day. The blue pair have to come off after a morning at church. For some reason, they don’t support my feet the same way. Apparently, each pair of shoes were constructed differently, even though both were “slip in”. When I get dressed, I have to “pre-think” wearing the blue pair, because my hurting feet!

Part of the armor Roman soldiers wore, were specific shoes. There were two types: caliga-more sandal like, and calceus–which was more boot like. They both consisted of a thick leather sole, with lighter thinner leather on top. The calceus, or boot type, covered the foot and ankle for more protection. Both types of foot coverings usually included metal hobnails on the bottom, to help keep their footing. Paul’s analogy on our need for armor included the importance of making sure we had our own specific feet coverings.

We can’t just simply throw on these shoes, like flip flops, and run out the door. There is a reason he said, “having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace.” We need to prepare these shoes. To begin with, need to understand that we have received peace between ourselves and God, by faith. Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ has done for us. Romans 5:1 NLT. Why would that matter? Because if we have peace with God, then there is no need to fear what is before us. There is something that shifts in our soul when we have His peace. It is a confidence builder for sure, just like wearing the breastplate of righteousness.

When we comprehend His love, His grace and His mercy, we do not need to fear our enemies. When soldiers put on their shoes to fight, they do so to fight against the enemies of the nation. We put on our shoes to fight against the wiles of the evil one. We also wear them to spread the good news of the gospel. It really is our main purpose.

It seems many believers do not know what the preparation of the gospel of peace means. They are unaware how their words, actions or lack there of, can affect the spreading of the gospel. It is God’s intention that every believer spreads the good news. Part of our preparation is understanding how to rightly divide the word of truth, according to 2 Timothy 2:15. They haven’t taken the time to “study to show themselves approved unto Him.”

Oh my friends, it is God’s heart that every believer is equipped to share the gospel. Satan wants to keep God’s people intimidated, so they don’t open their mouths and talk about Him. He wants to keep us distracted from learning and fellowshipping with Him. As a result, we don’t have any God stories to share. We lose our footing when he assaults us with lies, guilt, and shame.

My friends, we are called to share the good news. As I pondered that thought, I began to wonder, “do we comprehend the fact that it really is good news?” Taking the time to remember the work of His salvation in my life gives me perspective. It reminds me just how good He is. I am sure embedding every little hobnail in the Roman soldiers’ shoes took time. But it was worth it. Spending time in prayer, worship and the scripture helps us prepare to share the gospel, also takes time. But eternity is at stake!

How we treat people is often a reflection of how we are feeling inside. When we walk in His peace, we can share His peace with others. If someone jumps in front of you in the grocery line, you can simply smile. You can wait patiently because of the peace of God that rules and reigns in your heart. It might even lead to a conversation with them or others. I’ve had it happen to me! I even asked them if I could pray for them, because they seemed harried. They said, yes!

My friends, don’t forget to take the time to prepare your feet with the gospel. Ask the Lord to show you how. Spend time with Him. Check your peace level. If it is low, you need to refresh your understanding of the work He did on the cross for you.

It seems shoes are a major part of both women and men’s attire in some culture streams. Having our feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace goes with everything. This will never go out of style.

Father, I thank you for your grace today. I thank you for the gift of the gospel. You want us to be prepared to share it with others. Please teach us more about how you want us to do it! Forgive us for walking through life unprepared to share your good news. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Dealing with Doubts

June 12, 2025June 12, 2025 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

Why are you troubled, and why do doubts arise in your hearts? Luke 24:38 ESV.

Doubts: a feeling of uncertainty or lack of conviction. Have you ever faced a sneak attack, from the enemy, of doubt? I faced such an assault last week.

This is a very transparent story I am sharing with you. A couple of weeks ago, I felt the Holy Spirit nudging me to write a letter. It wasn’t an easy letter to write, so I sought Him for the wording. The day I wrote the letter, I actually woke up with, what I felt was His wording for the letter. This came with such peace, that I knew I had heard from Him on the matter.

All went well for the next few days. Then, one night as I was falling asleep, a very subtle feeling of unease crept in. I dismissed it, and went on with my life. But slowly but surely the unease led to insecurity which led to condemnation. The condemnation became so strong that I began to doubt anything and everything else I was doing. Along with the doubt, insecurity came fear.

The “feeling” was awful. I went back to the Lord, apologizing and repenting if I had misunderstood His assignment. I asked Him to be merciful and gracious to the person I wrote to. Finally, I shared the letter with someone. She knew the person I wrote to. She said, “it’s a good letter”. That helped.

As I went back to the Lord, I heard Him whisper: “doubt”. No wonder I was struggling. Doubt is an insidious tool. It subtly caused me to turn my eyes away from the Lord. Focusing on myself is never a good thing. I truly was like James 1:6 says, but let him ask in faith, or the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. My emotions had me all over the place.

When the Holy Spirit whispered the word “doubt”, peace came and it was like a light turned on! I knew I was the victim of a sneak attack by the enemy. What began with the letter, tried to spread to every ministry area in my life. It tried to undermine my calling and my purpose. Doubt and insecurity attempted to steal my confidence in the Lord. They wanted me to focus on myself. This shift in focus distracted me from God’s ability.

My friends, I felt confident that the letter I wrote, written in love, was an act of obedience. Only God knows what the outcome will be. Part of the letter challenged the works of darkness. I knew of the possible backlash, but was still unprepared for how it came. My friends, obedience isn’t always easy. We do have an enemy that does not fight fair. He seeks any entry he can find. He found an area of weakness in my life. I am so grateful for the Holy Spirit and His words of life and truth. The peace of God came immediately.

In Mark 9, we find the story of a father bringing his son to Jesus for help. His father asked “if you can do anything, have compassion on us and help us. And Jesus said to him, “if you can! All things are possible for one who believes. Immediately, the father of the child cried out and said, “I believe; help my unbelief!”. (Mark 9: 22-24. ESV.) The Lord has gone on to show me, what I started in faith, I needed to continue in faith. Praying and believing the words I wrote, spoken in faith and love, would produce the good fruit God intended. When doubt entered in, I stopped praying for the situation. It began to be about me. I’ve gone back to praying in faith, that He is moving. I’m praying the truth will set free and God’s will, will be done.

We must continue to grow in our faith. Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God. Romans 10:17. My friends, don’t let doubt and unbelief hinder you from obedience. It is not worth it.

Father, I thank you for your victory. I am humbled by your gracious Holy Spirit who speaks words of life to us. Please teach us how to resist doubt and unbelief by learning Your Word and Your Ways.

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Faith and Lessons on Trust

May 15, 2025 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

Oh Lord, I give my life to you. I trust in you, my God! Psalm 25: 1 NLT.

This short verse opens Psalm 25. I find myself increasingly drawn to this simple but profound prayer. This week, our family has dealt with life’s troubles.

My older sister Carol is getting ready to transition to heaven. This was not unexpected, but it is still difficult. She lives four hours away. I struggled to decide if I should drop everything and go be with her and her daughter. So I prayed this prayer, Lord, I trust you. When I talked with my niece, I realized it was best for me to stay here. They have hospice care, and that seems to be all they need right now.

My granddaughter just got her driver’s license last week. Tuesday afternoon, she was driving with her mother. A man pulling a trailer got distracted. He plowed into their car. The car is now being evaluated to see if it is worth fixing. The other driver took full responsibility for the accident. The good news, no one went to the ER. We are grateful. It was frightening to hear about. Yet, it was another chance to say: thank you Lord for keeping them safe and I continue to trust you.

This morning my son-in-law fell. The pain was so intense he passed out. Now, they are running many tests to see if there was any internal damage done to any of his organs. Amid all these tests, I am declaring, “Lord, I trust you”. I trust you to show the doctors any critical issue. I trust you to meet their needs. Keep fear far from them. Just hear:d. No fractures seen. CT scan looks great. Use of ibuprofen/tylenol alternating for pain along with lidocaine patches. Monitoring his heart for twenty-four hours and a breathing tool to prevent pneumonia. Declaring my trust in Him helps me release my faith during stressful times. It also helps me capture wild and wayward thoughts that would lead to fear, and all those “what if” scenarios!

My sister’s end-of-life situation is part of living in this world. So many wonderful memories and the fact she knows the Lord makes a hard thing a little easier. The car accident was shocking and unexpected. By the time I received the call, there were people on the scene helping. The other driver took many opportunities to reassure my granddaughter it was not her fault. Each of these things help build trust in Him even more.

Psalm 25:4 reveals another of David’s prayers that I use. Show me the right path, O Lord; point out the road for me to follow. Lead me by your truth and teach me, for you are the God who saves me. My friends, if we surrender to His will, He will lead us. If you are seeking His will for direction, you must determine beforehand to follow whichever road He shows you! Settle in your heart that no matter what it looks like, His road is best. Remember along that path, you will encounter truth and you will learn some lessons. Some of these lessons may be for you, or they may be to help others.

There is another aspect we need in this area of trust. We find it in verse 6. Praise the Lord! Praising the Lord in stressful times acknowledges Him again. Praising Him unlocks even more trust in Him. For he heard my cry for mercy. David declares: The Lord is my strength and shield. No matter how weak and out of control we may feel, God hasn’t changed. He is still stronger than our adversary. His shield is protecting us. We are not alone in our troubles unless we want to be. I am trying to grow in my trust, like David declares in the rest of this verse. I trust him with all my heart. This is a process. A few nights ago, my friend was facing a difficult situation. I began praying for her. My heart was broken for her. I declared through song: My Lord knows the way through the wilderness, all I have to do is follow. Strength for today is mine all the way, and all I need for tomorrow. My Lord knows the way through the wilderness, all I have to do is follow. I may have sung it with tears, but singing it released my faith. I added her name in the song, declaring the Lord knows her way through her own wilderness and I ended up sleeping peacefully.

The rest of this Psalm has good trust statements as well. I encourage you to read it. God’s Word is often like a reset to me. We can never go wrong trusting it!

Father, I thank you for teaching us to trust you. We declare with your son David, O Lord, I give my life to you, I trust in you, my God. You are so trustworthy. Forgive us when we lean unto our own understanding and decide to walk our own paths. I am so grateful you know how to “show the proper path to those who go astray (verse 9). Help us Lord, In Jesus’ Name amen.

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Faith and Teachableness

May 8, 2025 Martha Rodman1 Comment

Instruct the wise, and they will be even wiser, teach the righteous, and they will learn even more. Proverbs 9:9 NLT.

I wonder how you and I would rank on a “teachableness” scale? Would you consider yourself very teachable? Somewhat teachable? Or lousy at it? Jesus taught with parables. Some understood them, some didn’t have a clue what he was talking about, even His own disciples! They are excellent role models for us. Because they didn’t just go on with their day, nodding, “oh yes, wise sayings”. In Luke 8, Jesus told the parable of the farmer scattering seed. They did not understand, so “his disciples asked him what his parable meant”. Luke 8:9. My friends, we need to ask about things we don’t understand.

But we must first acknowledge what we don’t know. There are some things in my life I don’t know how to do. Sometimes, I just don’t want to bother with them. Last week, after our Life Group was over, someone noticed a leg on my chair was loose. She picked it up, did something, and tightened it. I didn’t want to admit; I didn’t know how to do it. Usually, I wait till my son comes over, discovers the wobble and fixes it. I never watched him do it or ask how to do it. I just lived with it. However, this week I told myself, it can’t be that hard. I found an Allen wrench, experimented and finally got it to work! Are there areas in your knowledge about God that you have never asked Him to teach you about?

God gave us the Holy Spirit to be our teacher. He wants to instruct us and teach us in God’s ways. Come unto me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light. Matthew 11:28-30. I wonder if the reason so many of us grow weary is that we don’t know Him well enough. We are walking in our own strength and wisdom, and doing things harder than need be. We focus on the problem more than on God and His ability to solve it. He wants to teach us better ways to do things, if we only ask.

If we want to be teachable, we must quiet our own thoughts and ideas. Then we must put on our listening ears. Many of us find this hard to do amid our noisy world. I’m trying to remember to pray before I open my Bible every day. “Father, teach me. Help me understand what I am reading”. I don’t want to read simply for information, I want to read for application. Sometimes this is hard, because it means I have to change. Being teachable means you will change your approach, your thoughts, your attitudes, or your actions. But we don’t have to make these changes by sheer willpower. We have the Holy Spirit’s help!

Praying with King David, in Psalm 25: make me t know your ways, O Lord, teach me your paths. Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; for you I wait all the day long. Psalm 25: 4-5. ESV. The more we seek Him and His ways, the more comfortable we are with His paths. A person with a teachable spirit is correctable. They do not need to be defensive. They are soft and tenderhearted toward the things of the Lord. They will admit they are wrong.

Years ago I was talking with a friend about the scripture about putting new wine in old wineskins. I was sharing my “wisdom” as a young pastor. My friend offered a very insightful comment, and, to be honest, I was embarrassed by my lack of insight. I was dishonest, and said, “Oh, yes I knew that’. Unfortunately, that lie lost me the insight and wisdom she shared. I had to repent and admit my pride stood in the way of my learning something. I ranked very low on the teachable scale that day. Don’t let that happen to you. Let’s be learners, no matter who the teacher might be.

Father, please forgive our pride. Help us humble ourselves and seek to learn from you. Thank you for your willingness to teach us, even if we resist it. Your ways are higher than our ways, once we learn that it is so much easier to do things your ways. In Jesus’ Name, amen/

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Faith and The Church

May 1, 2025 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

God’s purpose in all this was to use the church to display his wisdom in its rich variety to all unseen rulers and authorities in the heavenly places. Ephesians 3: 10 NLT.

Have you ever felt two opposite emotions at the same time? This past Easter, over 100 people raised their hands to receive Jesus as their Lord and Savior. It was so exciting to hear. The next week, we baptized about 30 people! It was exciting to catch their enthusiasm. God is on the move! So I experienced the joy and excitement with our church, and more importantly, The Church. But these new converts are going to need milk and nurturing in God’s ways. They need this if they are to grow up like He desires. I want them to fall in love with Jesus, but also His church.

So my question to all of us is, do you love the church? He does. Do you respect God’s heart toward His church? Is it easy for you to criticize it? But my friends, it is easy to forget the church comprises people.Those people are you and I! If we as “mature” believers do not model love for God’s house, then how are they to learn to?

Maybe you are struggling to love your specific local church. If something has offended you, do not let it fester. Do you not see how the enemy is trying to separate you? If not physically, then emotionally? Forgive where you need to forgive. Get clarification where you need clarification. Remember, every church is made up of imperfect humans. We often expect the perfection of others and want grace and mercy for ourselves. What type of church would the church be if everyone was like you? Now we know we aren’t all the same and that can create problems. But He has made us a body with separate parts and functions. So learn to be grateful for those with different gifts than you have.

Hebrews 10:24-25: And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near. Here is another question to consider. How can you stir one another to love and good works? You can’t do this if you are not with one another. Satan wants us to focus on ourselves, so we think “It won’t matter if I go today”. The thing he won’t tell you is how God might use you that day for someone else. If we go with self-focused eyes, we will miss Him using us to help others. Even if you are shy and introverted, God can show you how to pray for someone! “Nobody talked to me” “That church is cold”….hmmm, did you talk to someone? Jesus shed His blood for everyone in your church, the same price He paid for you. It may take an effort to love them, but it may take an effort to love you too!

For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without spot or wrinkle or any blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without spot. Ephesians 5:25-27. NLT I think we often forget how much God loves His church. We often forget the price He paid for her. We also forget how He is working to make her glorious. We are like spoiled and immature children. We quickly complain and criticize if we don’t get our needs met through her as we think we should. It is time to grow up.

Remember what He said to Peter? And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock, I will build my church and the gates of hell will not prevail against it. Matthew 16: 18. ESV. God will perfect His church. It will keep standing. My friend in India shared with me that a house church was attacked and the pastor put in jail. They are standing strong in the face of adversity and persecution. Let’s not worry about minor issues. Instead, let’s take the time to pray for our brothers and sisters who are being persecuted. I am so grateful we have the freedom to worship here in this country. Don’t waste it. There may come a time when we can’t gather. My friends in India are meeting secretly, but they are meeting. They strengthen one another by being together. Let’s do the same.

Father, help us honor and strengthen your church. Not just our local one, but the universal one. We choose to stand with those who may think differently than we do on a topic, but still name you as Lord. Forgive us for disrespecting your Bride, Teach us to love your church, as you do. in Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Disarmament

April 24, 2025 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them. Colossians 2:15. NLT.

In his Easter message, one scripture our pastor used was this one. It was an amazing message dealing with time, the cross and the keys of authority we have been given. As he read, in this way, he disarmed the spiritual rulers and authorities. He shamed them publicly by his victory over them on the cross. I became focused on the word, “disarmed”. I thought about police officers disarming the bad guys! I kept thinking about how they do a complete search, making sure there were no hidden weapons. They are “stripped” of everything that could be used against them. This is what Jesus did on the cross! He stripped our enemy of all their weapons!

This was the victory Jesus achieved on the cross. He disarmed the spiritual rulers and authorities. I thought, do I really believe it? That Jesus truly disarmed those spiritual authorities that try to lie and steal my victory? How about you? How would our lives be different if we really understood that our enemy has been stripped of his weapons? I am convinced we often live so far beneath His purpose and plan for our lives. We do not really grasp what He accomplished on the cross for us. This was part of the reason Paul wrote this letter. You can hear the longing in Paul’s writing in Colossians 2:1-2. I want you to know how much I have agonized for you and for the church of Laodicea, and for many other believers who I have never met personally. I want them to be encouraged and knit together by strong ties of love. I want them to have complete confidence that they understand God’s mysterious plan, which is Christ himself.

I love verse 14: He canceled the record of the charges against us and took it away by nailing it to the cross. This is not theory, it is reality. Our past sins are under the blood.We don’t have to live in regret for our past failings. We don’t have to listen to Satan’s lies. When the scripture uses the term “disarmed” it comes from the Greek word that means “stripped”. Do you think you can picture it? Those spiritual authorities standing before the King, and Him taking every weapon from them? They are hanging their heads in shame because there is nothing they can do. He’s done it!

So why don’t we live like this is our reality? Because we must enforce what Jesus has already done. It is our responsibility to resist him and watch him flee from us. This is a reminder. Most of you know this, but sometimes we forget. We just do until we make it a priority to really process it into our soul. I admit, he does sneak up on me with his lies and deception. I am so grateful we have the Holy Spirit to remind us what Jesus did on the cross for us. This is an area where we must allow our mind to be renewed, and most likely renewed again! We need to be in His Word daily to maintain the victory in our own lives.

Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives be built on him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness. Colossians 2:7. Chapter 2 of Colossians is an amazing reminder of what He did on the cross. Paul’s concern for the believers at Colossae and the surrounding region is so heartfelt. If you struggle with what He finished on the cross for you, take time to meditate on this chapter. It will refresh and encourage you.

Father, thank you. Thank you for allowing Jesus to disarm our enemies. Teach how to put that reality into practice. Every where we have been hoodwinked or lied to, show us. Bring into open areas where we are living beneath what you have done for us. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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Faith and Walking through Shadows

April 17, 2025 Martha RodmanLeave a comment

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. Psalm 23:4 NLT.

In 1981, while my husband was on a ministry trip to Texas, the Holy Spirit asked him a question. “Darryl, do you have a desire for a son?” As he searched his heart, he told the Lord, “you know, I do”. He called me from Texas and shared that conversation with me. We had already discussed having more children, and he told me he was content with our two beautiful daughters. Rosanna was going to be seven, Elizabeth five. I had already prayed to be content with these two. We were done with diapers, cribs and sleepless nights, but I did some more praying (of course I said, yes!)

This pregnancy was hard. I had extreme morning sickness (all day long!). Then I started spotting blood. My doctor advised bed rest, so that’s what I did. It wasn’t easy with two active girls. This bed rest gave me lots of time to think and pray. I wrestled with God’s question: if this was the promised son, then why was it so hard? Suppose I miscarried? How do I reconcile the two? I processed my trust in God’s Word. I navigated the pregnancy hormones and emotions. I tried to understand what my body was apparently doing. I struggled. One day, I read this verse. “Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil”. Such peace came over me. If, for some reason, I lost this pregnancy, there would be no evil in it. If I carried the baby to full term, there would also be no evil in it, even if it was a girl. For God is the author of life. The very next day, the bleeding stopped!

That scripture goes on to say, I will for no evil, for thou are with me. He is with us through every shadow of doubt and fear. If you are struggling with belief in His goodness through your situation, take heart. His rod and His staff are protecting you if you let Him. The rod is symbolic of God’s protection and discipline. The staff is used for guidance and support. Turn to Him and let Him guide you to safe places in your thoughts and emotions.

Andrew Lloyd Rodman was born September 9, 1982, very healthy and has been such a blessing to our family. The peace that came when I submitted to trusting God’s Word in this matter is hard to describe. This week, the doctors placed my sister Carol in hospice care. It was not unexpected, but still difficult to hear. Hospice care happens when the doctors feel a person has less than six months to live. Carol has been fighting Parkinson’s for several years.

Carol has been the glue that has kept our unusual family together. She was eleven when we were born. Our sister Laura was 4. Because of our mother’s mental condition, Carol and Laura were placed in foster care, and we were placed for adoption. Eventually, Carol and Laura were adopted into separate families as well. Through God’s amazing answer to prayer, we were reunited at 15. Carol was the big sister we didn’t know we needed! Carol is number four of eight children. We were numbers 6, 7 and 8! This valley is not easy for any of us.

The good news is Carol loves the Lord, and we know she will be with Him. My heart goes out to her two dear daughters who have taken such good care of her. It is difficult to navigate the hard decisions that come with end-of-life care. I know from personal experience, there will be a big hole in their hearts and lives when she goes. There is no evil in her passing. Parkinson’s diagnosis is not an easy one, and like all sicknesses and diseases, the result of the Fall.

Our hope lies in the resurrection, doesn’t it? This life has its difficult moments, for sure. The passing of loved ones is one of the hardest parts. But we take comfort in the words of 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14: But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again. Through Jesus, God will also bring with him those who have fallen asleep.

My friends, love well those you care about. Allow the Holy Spirit to help you navigate the difficult conversations. Accept the reality that none of us leave this world alive. Our real life will start when we see Him…aren’t you glad we have a Savior?

Father, I ask you to help us understand in a deeper manner how to navigate every valley that looks like death, and every valley that does lead to a death. Whether it is the death of dreams, or the death of a loved one. We choose to trust you, In Jesus’ Name. Amen.