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Faith and Legacy

This past week-end I had the blessing and privilege of spending time with my first-born daughter and her family.  We enjoy being together, in fact it was hard to say good-bye.  I enjoyed being around their three children and making memories.  As I listened to their parents impart wisdom, instruction and encouragement it occurred to me that legacy is not always that which takes place after a memorial service.  Legacy is something that comes line upon line, experience upon experience, day after day as in this case, parenting happens with intention.

We are all leaving a legacy of sorts.  The normal definition of legacy is an amount of money or property left to someone in a will.  What I am talking about comes from the second definition : something received from an ancestor or predecessor.  Those we influence, we are in fact, leaving a legacy.

As I watched my daughter take time  to calm, encourage, and instruct her daughter I realized she is helping influence not only her, but also those Abby comes into contact with in the future.  I saw myself in her approach, and also saw ways she took my approach and has improved upon it!  It was wonderful to watch her apply her education and learning into her children’s lives. These parents live with a desire to leave a legacy of being role models in the faith to their children.

Reading through I Chronicles 28 we discover King David gathering the leaders and officials of Israel together to speak wisdom and insight into their lives. Then he gets personal with his son, the new king, Solomon.  And Solomon, my son, learn to know the God of your ancestors intimately. Worship and serve him with your whole heart and a willing mind.  for the Lord sees every heart and knows every plan and thought.  If you seek him, you will find him.  But if you forsake him, he will reject you forever.  so take this seriously.  The Lord has chosen you to build a Temple as his sanctuary.  Be strong, and do th work. 

I can hear King David’s heart.  His words of advice and wisdom encouraging Solomon to learn to know the God of his ancestors intimately resonates in my own heart.  I true want to get to know this amazing God of creation, salvation and purpose more intimately than I have ever known him before.  I must come to him in faith, with faith trusting that Matthew 11:28,  Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you.  Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.  Learning to walk with him, with his yoke and his rest for my soul is really the legacy I long to impart unto others in my sphere of influence.  As I watch my son-in-law and daughter impart faith and hope into their children I see Darryl’s and my legacy already at work.  This is a wonderful gift.  Those of you whose children have not yet embraced your faith, do not grow weary in well-doing.  Pray for them, love them, be gracious unto them and trust our God for His love to touch their hearts and lives.  I know it is not easy.

Solomon had a clear job direction.  Build the Temple.  Maybe our focus is not as tangible, but we can always always go about doing good because charity never fails.  Father, help us be mindful of the legacy we always building and leaving.  Help it to glorify you and your Kingdom.  In Jesus Name, amen.

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Faith and mistakes

Some days life is just another day. Nothing outwardly spectacular happens when you pray.  You go about life’s necessities and the day goes on.  This was my yesterday.  My sister came over briefly to get some rest while her husband was at therapy for his knee replacement.  I was glad to offer her a couch to take a very needed nap.  I was showing her my crochet project when I noticed, even though it was almost finished, I had messed up. I am glad she came because I might have “finished” it and not even noticed. Continue reading “Faith and mistakes” →

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Faith and Loneliness

Walking the widow road at times I admit is often lonely and filled with potholes of opportunities to feel very lonely.  I do know that widows and widowers are not the only lonely people in the world.  In fact it is a true fact that no matter your state in life we all can experience loneliness.

Loneliness, while difficult, can cause some very positive changes in our life if we will embrace it with faith–neither fear nor self-pity.  Last week I talked about the critical inner voice–or the hostile judgmental adviser that we all carry in our heads that seeks to confront our faith and keep us smaller than God intends.  This voice shouts–“you are alone and lonely because you are unlovable”.  I have had to fight against this voice many times.  The Voice likes to talk in generalities–“everyone else…; or No one else…and of course we are never included in either!

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Faith and the Middle

My bathroom project continues.  Everything old is out, except for the toilet.  The old vanity is sitting in my bedroom.  The new tub is set in its new position, but of course not quite lining up as we thought.  I now have to do new flooring, because the old floor doesn’t match the new tub’s position.  I walked in there yesterday and prayed, “Lord, I thank you for having solutions for the known and unknown problems.”  Part of me just wants it done.  I don’t want to have to make more decisions.  However, most of the decisions are having to be made by my friend who is doing the work.  Some of the problems I see as major, he sees as minor.  We are obviously too far to quit.  I know and have faith that we will finish it.  It is going to be different already than I imagined, but I trust it will be a wonderful blessed room.  We need to keep going, not quit in the middle! Continue reading “Faith and the Middle” →

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Faith is needed in and for the “new”

I’ve been discovering lately, that although I enjoy many “new” things, others come with a bit of apprehension.  I wonder if the Israelite’s felt the same joyful anticipation but also a bit of dread when they entered the Promised Land?  For forty years they lived in the wilderness as nomads.  Following a pillar of cloud by day, and the pillar of fire by night; they experienced a type of security in their routine.  But then things began to change.  Joshua replaced Moses as their leader.  They were finished with the wandering season and about ready to do the “new” thing God had promised so many years before. Continue reading “Faith is needed in and for the “new”” →

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Faith Needs Celebrations

Faith and Celebrations!

When you think of the Christian life do see it as a steady battle, or at least a series of battles that seem never ending? Sometimes it can feel like that. We can feel like Elisha’s servant who when faced with enemies all around felt hopeless and defeated. Elisha prayed, “Lord open his eyes” and he saw the angels of the Lord surrounding them. Victory came to them that day, and I am sure the servant was never the same. Do you think they took time to celebrate? I imagine they did. Continue reading “Faith Needs Celebrations” →

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Faith and the Why Question

How do we grapple with the questions that arise in our life?  The difficult circumstances of life often provoke some of the most difficult questions that can disrupt, disturb or disconnect our relationship with God or amazingly they can cause us to draw closer to Him.

Last week I received news that an old friends young grandson (he graduated from high school in 2015) passed away in his sleep.  As of now, I don’t know if they even have a medical reason.  He just went to sleep and did not wake to another day on this earth.  Reading his obituary it sounds like he touched many lives on his abbreviated life for which I am sure his family are so thankful.  However, I am sure as they navigate life with a hole they are struggling with the ”why” question. Continue reading “Faith and the Why Question” →

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Faith and Your Joy Level

These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. John 15:11 ESV

The other day my check the oil light came on. My car gives me a low oil light warning by showing me a wrench and “oil, 15%”. I thought, I’m still ok. I can drive it a few miles without any danger to the engine. But every time I started the car the little wrench light was there warning me. I knew I had to respond to that little light. Yesterday I got the oil changed and it was comforting to see the oil level was marked 100%. It was reassuring to see that number.

I wish we had a clearly marked “warning, joy level down” marker in our own soul. In John 15 we find Jesus speaking clearly from his heart to his disciples–us included. Everything he taught them from John 14 to 17 are things he shared so “our joy may be full.” John 15:11. If we find our joy level dropping it may be because we have forgotten to pay attention to these instructions. We find the words: abide, obedience and trouble (or tribulation). To walk in the fullness of joy we must surrender to His will. As we surrender, by faith, to His will we can do it grudgingly or joyfully. Our choice is do we dutifully go about our tasks because we know it’s the ”right thing to do”, or do we choose to serve with joy? I would love to say I always serve with joy, but alas it is not true. We are often surrounded by “joy stealers”, and if we aren’t careful we can find ourselves as depressed, depleted and discouraged believers. Not really the abundant life our Lord has planned for us.

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Faith To Surrender

Early Sunday morning as I was driving to our Easter service, I was thinking about the faith it takes to surrender to the Lord and His will for our lives.  I realized we would not be celebrating Easter if Jesus had not surrendered to His Father’s will of the death on the cross.  He is our wonderful example.

The faith that is involved in surrendering to His will is not easy.  Hebrews 12:2b says Because of the joy awaiting him, he endured the cross, disregarding its shame.  (NLT) or the NKJV who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising  the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.  Jesus thought about what he was going to have to endure.  I always wonder how he went from the last meal with his disciples, where he served them: lovingly washing their feet sharing what we now call communion with them–and also knowing what was coming as he released Judas to his mission of betrayal.

Then they made the trip to the Garden of Gethsemane.

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