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Faith and Dealing with the “Blahs”

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Have you ever experienced a time in your walk with the Lord a season where you felt disengaged, separate or just like you were drifting?  As it can happen with human relationships, it can also happen with our relationship with the Lord.  The marriage relationship which began with such passion can drift into boring routines.  Children, who were so anticipated, become responsibilities that demand our attention, strength and energy.  And our relationship with Jesus can also deteriorate into a “hi-bye” kind of rut.

It is humbling to admit that I have experienced these sort of blahs in every one of my relationships.  But, I am here to encourage and remind us that there is a way out of these doldrums.  The amazing thing is that our God understands these tendencies.  He is so aware of our weaknesses.  In fact, he promises us that his power works best in weakness. (2 Corinthians 12:10 NLT)  I confess that lately I have found myself struggling through a season of “blahs”.  So when I felt the Lord wanting me to share this topic, I was less than thrilled!  However, it is always freeing to admit our humanity and move into his grace and mercy.
How did I get here–into this season of “blahs”?  I have kept up my devotional time (check), prayer-yes.  So what is the deal? My life had been super busy, and then it shifted.  I realized that during my busy time I did not take the time to really focus on what I was reading and really to whom I was praying.  So coming out of such a time of busyness, I think I have been running on spiritual fumes.  I am so grateful for the Holy Spirit and his grace to stir up the longing to re-connect in a more life-giving manner.  But I also realized that I could continue on with this surface relationship and end up getting de-railed in my walk with him.  We are warned about the distractions of life, how they can call us away from our first love.  The enemy of our soul works through such things to dull our hearts toward the things of God and His Kingdom and cause us to settle for less.  Not only does this affect our relationship with our Savior, it affects our usefulness for his kingdom.

God can use these times to stir us and motivate us to grow in new ways.  Our enemy can use this time to lead us away from our gifts and callings.  It is up to us, as sons and daughters, to determine to follow him.  I am not trying to scare us into fear that we can lose our way easily.  It is not like that, but I am trying to warn us (like Paul warned those around him) there are carefully disguised traps set around us that can catch us if we are not careful.  We were given spiritual armor for a reason, let us all remember to use it!

Steps to Deal with the Blahs

The Lord Supper

Scriptures encourage us to take communion as a reminder of what Christ did for us. This is a time to remind ourselves of the price he paid and just how much he loves us.

Fellowship

We are encouraged to not forsake the gathering of ourselves together with our brothers and sisters.  The strength and focus we gain from our spiritual family is crucial.  Never underestimate how much we need each other.  Taking time to share our burdens with the others lighten our load.

Worship

I sometimes use my online Bible app,  You Version, to do my devotionals.  Lately I have been using the reading feature to read the Psalms.  Psalm 95 and 96 encourage us to sing to the Lord.  I decided to not only read the words, but actually try singing to the Lord instead of singing about the Lord brought new thoughts and life to my soul.

The Word

Slowing down and focusing on what I am reading, asking the Holy Spirit for revelation as well as instruction really does feed my soul.  Taking the time to journal these thoughts reinforce what I read.

Testimony

Sharing God stories with others helps us overcome as the Word promises.Stirs my heart up to have more to share!

Prayer

Being encouraged by the Word, sharing the God stories of others build faith to ask for Godly intervention in the problems of life for myself and others.  But first, when I find myself fighting the blahs, I need to confess that to the Lord.  I ask him to reveal any where I might have fallen into the enemies traps or had my heart drawn away from him.  Then repent from any of those things he shows me.

These are just a few of the things that God has revealed to me concerning the blahs.

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Faith and Legacy

This past week-end I had the blessing and privilege of spending time with my first-born daughter and her family.  We enjoy being together, in fact it was hard to say good-bye.  I enjoyed being around their three children and making memories.  As I listened to their parents impart wisdom, instruction and encouragement it occurred to me that legacy is not always that which takes place after a memorial service.  Legacy is something that comes line upon line, experience upon experience, day after day as in this case, parenting happens with intention.

We are all leaving a legacy of sorts.  The normal definition of legacy is an amount of money or property left to someone in a will.  What I am talking about comes from the second definition : something received from an ancestor or predecessor.  Those we influence, we are in fact, leaving a legacy.

As I watched my daughter take time  to calm, encourage, and instruct her daughter I realized she is helping influence not only her, but also those Abby comes into contact with in the future.  I saw myself in her approach, and also saw ways she took my approach and has improved upon it!  It was wonderful to watch her apply her education and learning into her children’s lives. These parents live with a desire to leave a legacy of being role models in the faith to their children.

Reading through I Chronicles 28 we discover King David gathering the leaders and officials of Israel together to speak wisdom and insight into their lives. Then he gets personal with his son, the new king, Solomon.  And Solomon, my son, learn to know the God of your ancestors intimately. Worship and serve him with your whole heart and a willing mind.  for the Lord sees every heart and knows every plan and thought.  If you seek him, you will find him.  But if you forsake him, he will reject you forever.  so take this seriously.  The Lord has chosen you to build a Temple as his sanctuary.  Be strong, and do th work. 

I can hear King David’s heart.  His words of advice and wisdom encouraging Solomon to learn to know the God of his ancestors intimately resonates in my own heart.  I true want to get to know this amazing God of creation, salvation and purpose more intimately than I have ever known him before.  I must come to him in faith, with faith trusting that Matthew 11:28,  Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you.  Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.  Learning to walk with him, with his yoke and his rest for my soul is really the legacy I long to impart unto others in my sphere of influence.  As I watch my son-in-law and daughter impart faith and hope into their children I see Darryl’s and my legacy already at work.  This is a wonderful gift.  Those of you whose children have not yet embraced your faith, do not grow weary in well-doing.  Pray for them, love them, be gracious unto them and trust our God for His love to touch their hearts and lives.  I know it is not easy.

Solomon had a clear job direction.  Build the Temple.  Maybe our focus is not as tangible, but we can always always go about doing good because charity never fails.  Father, help us be mindful of the legacy we always building and leaving.  Help it to glorify you and your Kingdom.  In Jesus Name, amen.

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Faith and mistakes

Some days life is just another day. Nothing outwardly spectacular happens when you pray.  You go about life’s necessities and the day goes on.  This was my yesterday.  My sister came over briefly to get some rest while her husband was at therapy for his knee replacement.  I was glad to offer her a couch to take a very needed nap.  I was showing her my crochet project when I noticed, even though it was almost finished, I had messed up. I am glad she came because I might have “finished” it and not even noticed. Continue reading “Faith and mistakes”

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Faith and Unexpected Journeys Part 2

Wallking this more intentional faith journey this year with the Lord has changed me.  I find myself looking for God’s plan behind the scenes.  It is like Life sets up scenarios in which, if we look with faith eyes, we can see His hand and have the opportunity to cooperate with His purpose. Continue reading “Faith and Unexpected Journeys Part 2”

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Faith and Loneliness

Walking the widow road at times I admit is often lonely and filled with potholes of opportunities to feel very lonely.  I do know that widows and widowers are not the only lonely people in the world.  In fact it is a true fact that no matter your state in life we all can experience loneliness.

Loneliness, while difficult, can cause some very positive changes in our life if we will embrace it with faith–neither fear nor self-pity.  Last week I talked about the critical inner voice–or the hostile judgmental adviser that we all carry in our heads that seeks to confront our faith and keep us smaller than God intends.  This voice shouts–“you are alone and lonely because you are unlovable”.  I have had to fight against this voice many times.  The Voice likes to talk in generalities–“everyone else…; or No one else…and of course we are never included in either!

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Faith and the Middle

My bathroom project continues.  Everything old is out, except for the toilet.  The old vanity is sitting in my bedroom.  The new tub is set in its new position, but of course not quite lining up as we thought.  I now have to do new flooring, because the old floor doesn’t match the new tub’s position.  I walked in there yesterday and prayed, “Lord, I thank you for having solutions for the known and unknown problems.”  Part of me just wants it done.  I don’t want to have to make more decisions.  However, most of the decisions are having to be made by my friend who is doing the work.  Some of the problems I see as major, he sees as minor.  We are obviously too far to quit.  I know and have faith that we will finish it.  It is going to be different already than I imagined, but I trust it will be a wonderful blessed room.  We need to keep going, not quit in the middle! Continue reading “Faith and the Middle”

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Faith is needed in and for the “new”

I’ve been discovering lately, that although I enjoy many “new” things, others come with a bit of apprehension.  I wonder if the Israelite’s felt the same joyful anticipation but also a bit of dread when they entered the Promised Land?  For forty years they lived in the wilderness as nomads.  Following a pillar of cloud by day, and the pillar of fire by night; they experienced a type of security in their routine.  But then things began to change.  Joshua replaced Moses as their leader.  They were finished with the wandering season and about ready to do the “new” thing God had promised so many years before. Continue reading “Faith is needed in and for the “new””

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Faith and the Why Question

How do we grapple with the questions that arise in our life?  The difficult circumstances of life often provoke some of the most difficult questions that can disrupt, disturb or disconnect our relationship with God or amazingly they can cause us to draw closer to Him.

Last week I received news that an old friends young grandson (he graduated from high school in 2015) passed away in his sleep.  As of now, I don’t know if they even have a medical reason.  He just went to sleep and did not wake to another day on this earth.  Reading his obituary it sounds like he touched many lives on his abbreviated life for which I am sure his family are so thankful.  However, I am sure as they navigate life with a hole they are struggling with the ”why” question. Continue reading “Faith and the Why Question”

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Checked your joy level lately?

Last week I talked about faith through surrender–not always an easy task. As we surrender, by faith, to His will we can do it grudgingly or joyfully. Our choice is to dutifully go about our tasks because we know it’s the ”right thing to do”, or serving with joy? I would love to say I always serve with joy, but alas it is not true. We are often surrounded by “joy stealers”, and if we aren’t careful we can find ourselves as depressed, depleted and discouraged believers. Not really the abundant life our Lord has planned for us.

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